Verse 2b - 4: You do not have because you do not ask. You ask and do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it on your pleasures.You adulteresses, do you not know that friendship with the world is hostility toward God? Therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.
This is where verse divisions can disrupt the development of thought. In the first phrase (v.2b), James’ contends that they do not have because they do not ask in their own interest—by inference he means in their own best interest. On the other hand (v.3), James explains that when they do ask the essence of their asking is for the wrong motives: to spend on your own pleasures. He never specifies what the conflicts involve, neither does he state for what they are asking. But you can be certain that the pleasures are something they crave and will fight for—this is the picture of raging hedonism.
What we have here is a failure to pray to God with His will in mind and for what will ultimately glorify Him. It is praying from a position of weakness. In the midst of strife, we should be asking for wisdom—divine viewpoint—which would be in our best interest. This issue was already covered in chapter 1:
But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him. (James 1:5; cf. Philippians 4:19)
That which we ask of God must be in agreement with His will and that it will glorify Him. When praying accordingly, it places the believer a position of power—and only then are we able to understand how to be peacemakers and not quarrelsome fighters.
Friendship with the World
James continues his rebuke of their cravings for pleasures: you adulteresses. This is used figuratively, just as murder in verse 2. This refers to believer’s who are spiritually unfaithful in their relationship with the Lord. The readers affections and allegiance to their Lord has been exchanged with a frantic search for the details of life—food, sex, material goods, entertainment, power, etc. There is nothing wrong with the details of life, but believers must not allow them to be the central focal point of their lives. This is not a new indictment against God’s people—this goes back to the Old Testament when the Jews gave away their affections for the Lord to other gods (Ezekiel 16:15). The Lord Jesus characterized His day as “an evil and adulterous generation” (Matthew 12:39; 16:4; cf. Mark 8:38) because the religious leaders had debased the Jewish faith.
James’ question to them—“Do you not know, etc.?”—has an underlying implication that they certainly must know1 that friendship with the world constitutes that they are hostile to God. This is stated as an absolute fact. The word world denotes Satan’s kingdom. What it means is that since “the whole world lies in the power of the evil one” (1 John 5:19) we become Satan’s friends. When believers exchange their faithfulness to God for an allegiance to the details of life they become friends with Satan and are hostile, or at enmity with God. The apostle Paul is of the same opinion when he states:
Because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so. (Romans 8:7)
Satan infiltrates the believer’s mind with demonic wisdom (3:15) and as Paul also mentions:
But the Spirit explicitly says that in later times some will fall away from the faith, paying attention to deceitful spirits and doctrines of demons. (1 Timothy 4:1)
Notice that the consistent theme so far in chapter 4 has to do with the believers’ trend toward pleasures—a life of hedonism—a manic search for happiness with the details of life. And now James finishes this verse by equating their hedonism with their desire (wishes) to be friends with the world. It is an apt conclusion stating that by this mentality the believer has appointed (literally, makes2) himself to be an enemy of God.
It is essential that we evaluate daily our motives, endeavors and affections to ensure that they do not disrupt our relationship with the Lord.
Are we faithfully observing what the apostle Paul commanded?
“Whether, then, you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.” (1 Corinthians 10:31)
1 Lenski, R.C.H. (2001). Commentary on the New Testament. Hendrickson Publishers, 10.628
2 Greek word kathístēmi/καθίστημι means: make or appoint. In Arndt, W., Gingrich, F. W., & Bauer, W. (1957). A Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament and Other Early Christian Literature. University of Chicago Press, p. 391.
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